PHILEMON, AN EXAMPLE FOR ALL

Onesimus was a runaway slave. After Onesimus ran away, he came in contact with the apostle Paul. Onesimus obeyed the gospel, apparently after being taught by Paul. Paul wrote his letter to Philemon in order to intercede on Onesimus’ behalf. Paul wanted to keep Onesimus in Rome so he could be of help to Paul. However, Paul knew this would not be the right thing to do. Paul encouraged Philemon to accept Onesimus back, no longer as just a servant, but also as a brother in Christ. The book of Philemon reveals several of Philemon’s character traits that we would do well to make part of our character.

First, consider Philemon’s faith (verses 4-5). How could Paul hear of Philemon’s faith? Because of Philemon’s actions! Faith can be seen (Mark 2:1-12). Faith is the foundation of our lives as Christians (II Peter 1:5). Without faith, it is impossible for a person to be pleasing to God (Hebrews 11:6). Biblical faith is not merely belief, but it is a faith that motivates a person to obey God (James 2:24-26). Biblical faith is a faith that has a positive influence on others (Philemon, verse 7).

Second, consider Philemon’s love (verse 14). Paul knew he could be much more assertive in making his request of Philemon. But instead Paul chose to appeal to Philemon’s love when making his request on Onesimus’ behalf. All that we do should be prompted by our love for God, Christ, and our fellow man. Consider Philemon, verse fourteen along with II Corinthians 9:7 and I John 3:8.

Third, consider Philemon’s fellowship (verse 17). The word "fellowship" can be defined as "joint participation, or sharing in something." Fellow is not to be extended haphazardly, but is based upon the unity of the faith. We are to be in fellowship with those persons who are in fellowship with God and Christ (I John 1:3). This fellowship results in joy (Philemon 7, I John 1:4).

Fourth, consider Philemon’s favor (verse 25). God’s grace has often been defined as God’s unmerited favor toward man. This grace was manifested by Christ’s sacrifice for man’s sins. We ought to strive to live in such a way that God will look upon us in a favorable manner.